{"id":80426,"date":"2025-07-19T03:03:47","date_gmt":"2025-07-19T03:03:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new365.azontree.com\/?p=80426"},"modified":"2025-07-19T03:03:47","modified_gmt":"2025-07-19T03:03:47","slug":"update-selena-gomez-allegedly-wouldnt-solidify-wedding-date-without-knowing-taylor-swift-would-be-there","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new365.azontree.com\/?p=80426","title":{"rendered":"UPDATE: Selena Gomez Allegedly Wouldn\u2019t Solidify Wedding Date Without Knowing Taylor Swift Would Be There"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.cheatsheet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Selena-Gomez-Taylor-Swift.webp\" alt=\"Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift hugging and posing for a photo in 2023\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"eg-single-article eg-container eg-container--wide\">\n<div class=\"eg-single-article__content\">\n<div class=\"eg-single-article__block-content\">\n<p id=\"par-1_97\">Selena Gomez\u00a0and\u00a0Benny Blanco, who began dating\u00a0in mid\u20112023 after years of creative collaboration, took their romance to the next level with an intimate proposal on Dec.\u202f11,\u202f2024.<\/p>\n<p>Gomez shared the big news via Instagram, captioning the post \u201cforever begins now,\u201d alongside photos of a charming picnic and a stunning marquise\u2011cut diamond ring. Celebrity friends flooded the post with congratulations, including\u00a0Taylor Swift playfully declaring\u00a0she wanted to be their flower girl.<\/p>\n<p>Now, a source alleges that Gomez refused to set a wedding date until she knew Swift\u2019s schedule to ensure the pop queen would attend.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"h-selena-gomez-allegedly-refused-to-solidify-a-wedding-date-without-knowing-taylor-swift-s-availability\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Selena Gomez allegedly \u2018refused\u2019 to solidify a wedding date without knowing Taylor Swift\u2019s availability<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"emb-1\" class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\" rh-null\" title=\"Selena Gomez and benny blanco Freaked Out During Their Proposal, Talk I Said I Love You First Album\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/sEd6K2Sm6Ww?feature=oembed\" width=\"1320\" height=\"743\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-rhp=\"1\" data-original-client-width=\"822\" data-original-client-height=\"462\" data-yt-skip=\"1\" data-rh-vid=\"1\" data-embed-url=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/sEd6K2Sm6Ww?feature=oembed\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p id=\"par-2_103\">Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift have been inseparable friends since striking up a connection back in 2008 while dating the Jonas brothers.<\/p>\n<p>Swift dated Joe, and Gomez dated Nick, sparking what the duo has affectionately called a \u201csisterhood\u201d rooted in empathy, loyalty, and shared experience.<\/p>\n<p>That bond has only deepened over the years, with Gomez counting on Swift as a trusted confidante, especially when it comes to Gomez\u2019s music. So when Gomez announced her engagement to Benny Blanco in December 2024 via a heartfelt Instagram post, Taylor\u2019s playful and public reaction felt perfectly fitting: \u201cYes I will be the flower girl,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n<p id=\"par-3_19\">Now, a source says that Gomez didn\u2019t want to commit to a wedding date without knowing Swift\u2019s availability.<\/p>\n<p id=\"par-4_49\">\u201cSelena refused to send out a save-the-date until she knew Taylor was free,\u201d a source told British journalist and gossip columnist\u00a0Rob Shuter. \u201cIt\u2019s not optional. Taylor has to be there. \u2026 From the welcome cocktails to the final toast \u2014 Selena wants her there for it all.<\/p>\n<p id=\"par-5_33\"><em>The source added that Travis Kelce received an invite as well. \u201cSelena adores Travis for the way he treats Taylor,\u201d the source noted. \u201cShe wants them both to feel celebrated \u2014 like royalty.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"h-another-source-said-selena-gomez-is-not-having-her-wedding-to-accommodate-taylor-swift\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Another source said Selena Gomez is \u2018not having her wedding to accommodate\u2019 Taylor Swift<\/h2>\n<p>A source told\u00a0DailyMail.com\u00a0that Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco are tying the knot in Montecito in September 2025. And the event will last more than one day.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEveryone invited has been asked to bring overnight bags to stay for the weekend,\u201d the insider alleged.<\/p>\n<p>The source added that in addition to close friends and family, A-listers like Taylor Swift, Travis Kelce, and Gomez\u2019s\u00a0Only Murders In the Building co-stars received invites. Additionally, some big names in the music industry and Blanco\u2019s co-workers plan to attend.<\/p>\n<p id=\"par-9_23\">Another source said that September 2025 worked well for Swift\u2019s schedule, which impacted Gomez\u2019s wedding day date. However, a third source countered this.<\/p>\n<p id=\"par-10_32\">\u201cSelena is not having her wedding to accommodate Taylor, but she wants her to attend, and she would love for her to be able to go with Travis,\u201d the third source alleged.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"h-the-only-murders-star-wants-this-traditional-aspect-of-her-wedding-to-change\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">The \u2018Only Murders\u2019 star wants this traditional aspect of her wedding to change<\/h2>\n<p id=\"par-11_56\">Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce will more than likely make it to Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco\u2019s wedding. However, they shouldn\u2019t expect to see the couple have a first dance. While on the Table Manners with Jessie and Lennie Ware podcast on April 30, Gomez noted that she doesn\u2019t want to have a traditional dance with her husband.<\/p>\n<p id=\"par-12_93\"><em>\u201cI don\u2019t think we\u2019re looking at having one of those, cause they\u2019re a little \u2026. I am looking to have a special dance with my Papa,\u201d she admitted, referring to her maternal grandfather. \u201cHe never got a chance to walk my mom down the aisle because, good for my mom, she decided to go to Vegas and was like, \u2018Whooo,\u2019 and she\u2019s still been with him [Brian Teefey] ever since she was 26. So, it\u2019s very cute that they did that. 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